by Carl Mothes | Dec 18, 2025 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
And now for the star: Resolve. Some may think him unnecessary, perhaps a bit too subtle to be the star. But they would be wrong. This role is necessary and as we’ll see, deserving of top-billing for his special talent of mitigation and manifestation. You see, there...
by Carl Mothes | Dec 4, 2025 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
Well, it’s going to be a new year soon. So what? What’s changed from last year? What’s remained the same? Perhaps the idea of making New Year’s resolutions has become overly overplayed. But perhaps so has the mocking backlash against such a beginning point for change....
by Carl Mothes | Nov 7, 2025 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
“My patients?” “My clients?” “The dudes I work with?”How do I describe my clientele? I struggle with this. “Patients” refers to the medical model and indicates a status differentiation that I dislike—none of us have figured “it” out. “Clients” comes across as if we’re...
by Carl Mothes | Oct 9, 2025 | Mens Therapy BLOG
Ok, you fucked up and didn’t heed the advice in the previous post, and now you’re experiencing the utterly unpleasant experience of distrust. Let experience be the solution; it’s not called the best teacher for no reason. Actually, in the case of trust, its...
by Carl Mothes | Jul 10, 2025 | Mens Therapy BLOG
Part II – What about the individual? The main point here is that in a romantic/life partnership, individual expectations must be based on—or coincide with—relationship expectations. When expectation conflicts arise, typically the individual expectation...
