by Carl Mothes | Jan 4, 2022 | Mens Therapy BLOG
We’re going to keep on with the concept of how. I just think, yes, it is that important. Let’s set the framework a bit with an analogy. Picture a staircase. Now, how do you climb the staircase? Obvious answer – you climb the staircase. But that is...
by Carl Mothes | Oct 27, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG
Very often we think about and hear things aimed at helping us get past a sticking point, move forward, alleviate some frustration, anger, sadness, etc. The answers we get often seem obvious: if you are doubting yourself, stop; if you are nervous about approaching...
by Carl Mothes | Oct 7, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG
With the last post we were left with the possibility that there may not be a problem. So it seems cohesive to post this piece next. After vetting the situation we may grasp an understanding that there actually is a problem. But, how do we know and then...
by Carl Mothes | Sep 22, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG
I think it important to take a step back often and ask this important therapeutic question: Do I really have a problem? I think as therapists our starting assumption is that if someone takes the time and makes the effort to schedule and actually show up for an...
by Carl Mothes | Mar 15, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG
We’re going to finish this series on absurdity with a look at its logical end – death. Less dramatic and more practical to how we live we’ll use the distinction between process and outcome. Because the ultimate outcome of any living thing is death or...