by Carl Mothes | Aug 27, 2018 | Mens Therapy BLOG
So there is a recent wave, or maybe more of an undercurrent, extolling the virtue of authenticity, being authentic, living an authentic life. And, yes, I do talk a great deal about being authentic, and finding authenticity. So what the hell does authenticity...
by Carl Mothes | Jul 4, 2018 | Mens Therapy BLOG
Because there is so much added bullshit in the world, particularly in the realm of self-improvement, self-help, life-coaching, and psychotherapy. This blog post may come off a bit more personal than previous ones, delving into areas that I can certainly get on a soap...
by Carl Mothes | May 18, 2018 | Mens Therapy BLOG
Get that corner office, increase salary by 20%, bench press 315, complete the 10k run in under 45 minutes. All represent goals that may exist in your life in some form. And all share some measurable outcome to let you know if you’ve achieved them or not. I’ll call...
by Carl Mothes | Apr 20, 2018 | Mens Therapy BLOG
This concept cannot be stressed enough. The need for a base is perhaps the most important and initial phase of any endeavor with an aim of betterment. Betterment, be it more professional success, better health, life satisfaction, intimate relationships, (fill in the...
by Carl Mothes | Mar 17, 2018 | Mens Therapy BLOG
Gratitude is important. And, yes, a bit trendy. So I’ll jump in and share some thoughts on how to level up your gratitude game. I recently read All Things Shining by Hubert Dreyfus and Sean Dorrance Kelly. The book suggests that gratitude gives us a...
by Carl Mothes | Feb 6, 2018 | Mens Therapy BLOG
Lately, perhaps given the holidays and increased tasks along with adjusted schedules, I’ve been thinking about our time as it relates to focus and stress. An aspect of directed focus can be looking inwardly, not in a selfish way, but in a way that puts a priority on...