by Carl Mothes | Sep 22, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG
I think it important to take a step back often and ask this important therapeutic question: Do I really have a problem? I think as therapists our starting assumption is that if someone takes the time and makes the effort to schedule and actually show up for an...
by Carl Mothes | Aug 4, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG
This is a quick little blog, more like a blurb. There is a philosophical view that defines time as the observance of change, or maybe change itself, I don’t specifically recall. There is a lot more to it than that, but the crude essence is that time is itself...
by Carl Mothes | Jul 19, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG
So, if you stayed with me through the three part posting on absurdity, I think we need a break. To that end, here’s a hands-on post with some actual practicality. I suppose I should preface this post with the obligatory disclaimer that I’m not a medical doctor...
by Carl Mothes | Mar 15, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG
We’re going to finish this series on absurdity with a look at its logical end – death. Less dramatic and more practical to how we live we’ll use the distinction between process and outcome. Because the ultimate outcome of any living thing is death or...
by Carl Mothes | Feb 5, 2021 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
Let’s continue down our absurd path by considering another aspect of perspective: salience (that which is important and mattering to us). I regularly refer to this perspective shift as a shift in our ‘zoom magnification.’ By zooming all the way out or all the way...