by Carl Mothes | Sep 23, 2025 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
I think it’s safe to assume we all regard trust and truth as important, good, and even worth striving for. But why? Maybe your answer is that these concepts are just inherently so. As usual, let’s dig a bit deeper, and also lay groundwork for the following post, which...
by Carl Mothes | May 16, 2025 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
Expectations in a relationship (romantic, life partner, etc.), specifically misunderstood, misaligned, mis- or non-communicated expectations, are by far the largest contributor to relationship problems. I have no idea if this is empirically correct, but dammit if it...
by Carl Mothes | Mar 20, 2025 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
We often tout efficiency as the pinnacle guiding principle on the way toward continued human achievement—almost like it’s the only metric that matters. Yes, it can be important, but what about pleasure? It’s, of course, not a binary situation—efficiency or...
by Carl Mothes | Jul 14, 2022 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
We want answers. More specifically, we want ‘an’ answer. Why am I like this? What keeps me doing/not doing what I want to do and know I should do? Typically when asking these questions to ourselves we just assume there is ‘an’ answer. Perhaps we recognize there may be...
by Carl Mothes | Mar 23, 2022 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
I’ve always been taken by the concept of choice. That may sound odd. After all how much thought can be put into what constitutes a choice or the act of choosing. It’s simply the determination of one option over another – right? Well maybe it does...
by Carl Mothes | Jan 10, 2022 | Mens Therapy BLOG, Uncategorized
I have a slew of blog posts in various stages of completion and sitting down to determine which post to complete next, I was struck that I have a Regret 1 sitting out there without a Regret 2. So, here we go… Recently I’ve given some thought to regret....
